REUNION INFORMATION

IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ

To my fellow shipmates,

I have always looked on our reunions as just get-togethers. However, the recent Military Reunion Network (MRN) Summit in Lubbock, TX brought home how much more they are. Sharon Danitschek, from MRN, has consistently championed the mental health benefits of reunions. I wanted to further emphasize this crucial point.

I had difficulty putting words to paper/screen, so I decided to turn to AI. After numerous back-and-forths fine tuning my topic, this is what it came up with. I have read every word, and this cannot be any closer to what I originally wanted to say.

It is easy to dismiss military reunions as simple social gatherings – a chance to swap old stories and catch up with familiar faces. However, as I experienced at the recent MRN Summit, there is a profound, often overlooked, benefit to these connections: they are vital for our mental health. The MRNs mission statement, "Our mission is to reduce Veteran Suicide by encouraging continued connection through military reunions," powerfully highlights this truth.

This perspective might be a revelation for many. We might not consciously recognize the deep psychological impact of these gatherings, but the fact remains: Whether we want to admit it or not, most of us carry some sort of invisible wounds or unspoken challenges from our service that impact our overall mental health. It is not always about combat trauma; it could be the stress of deployment, the difficulty of transitioning back to civilian life, the loss of friends, or even just the unique culture shock of re-entering a world that doesn't quite "get" what you've been through. These experiences, subtle or overt, can contribute to feelings of isolation, anxiety, depression, or a sense of not quite belonging.

This is precisely where reunions become more than just a party; they transform into crucial therapeutic spaces. When we gather with those who shared our experiences, we find:

Profound Understanding and Validation: There is an immediate, unspoken understanding that permeates these gatherings. You don't have to explain the nuances of military life, the inside jokes, or the unspoken rules; everyone just gets it. This shared context provides immense validation, reassuring us that our experiences and feelings are normal, not isolated.
A Safe Space for Shared Processing: Reunions offer a unique environment where it feels safe to talk about things you might not discuss with anyone else. The shared history creates a bond of trust, allowing us to process difficult memories, discuss ongoing struggles, and even grieve losses in a supportive and empathetic setting.
Reconnection with Purpose and Identity: For many, military service was a defining period, offering a strong sense of purpose and identity. Civilian life can sometimes feel directionless by comparison. Reunions help reignite that sense of camaraderie and remind us of the shared values and bonds that once shaped us, helping to anchor our identity.
Combatting Isolation, a Silent Killer: One of the biggest threats to mental health, especially for veterans, is isolation. The MRNs focus on "continued connection" directly addresses this. By bringing us together, reunions actively combat loneliness and provide a vital support network, reminding us that we are part of a community that understands and cares.
Mutual Support and Resilience Building: Beyond just talking, reunions often lead to practical support. Veterans share coping strategies, recommend resources, or simply offer an empathetic ear. This mutual support builds resilience, equipping us to better navigate future challenges.

In essence, these "get-togethers" are powerful antidotes to the silent struggles many veterans face. They are not just about nostalgia; they are about fostering ongoing connections that are fundamental to our mental well-being, helping us to heal, feel understood, and ultimately, thrive.

FUTURE REUNIONS

NEXT REUNION IS 2026

Of the three potential 2026 locations—Kalispell, MT; Providence/Warwick, RI; and San Diego—early feedback strongly favors San Diego. It has received a significant majority of the votes cast (27 of 37 total) through our newsletter and largest Facebook group, well ahead of Providence/Warwick, RI (7 votes) and Kalispell, MT (3 votes). Responses outside of the poll also favor San Diego. A final decision will be made later this year, and your input is always welcome!

2028 - Midwest or East Coast *crew member feedback will always determine location

2029 or 2030 - *grand opening of the National Museum of the U.S. Navy in Washington, D.C.?

Please note, there may be other reunions I am not aware of. Are you planning a ship reunion? Want that information listed here? Please EMail me the details.

Exploring New Reunion Locations - Armed Forces Reunions and Visit Virginia Beach will be hosting me on a Virginia Beach FAM Tour November 2-4.

I just returned from the Military Reunion Network Summit held in Lubbock, TX June 19-23. These summits bring together military reunion planners and CVBs, hotels, cities, and counties from throughout the country. This year, 30 reunion planners were working on future reunions. I met with 24 representatives from: Huntsville and Mobile AL, Tucson AZ, Central Delaware, Columbus GA, Springfield IL, Leavenworth KS, Bloomington MN, Harrah's Kansas City and Leavenworth KS, Jefferson Parish NO, Fayetteville NC, Albuquerque NM, Harrah's Laughlin NV, Buffalo and Niagara Falls NY, Norman OK, Gettysburg and Cumberland Valley PA, Providence/Warwick RI, Charleston SC, Fairfax County and Williamsburg VA, and Cheyenne WY. Each had just 10 minutes to pitch their unique offerings to me. It’s like speed dating, but for reunion planners!

In June 2024 , I attended the Military Reunion Network Summit held in Herndon, VA. I met with representatives from 22 amazing destinations: Greene County OH, Visit Central DE, Visit Leavenworth, Visit Wichita, Visit Fairfax, Visit Evansville, Visit Williamsburg, Visit Fayetteville and Jacksonville NC, Visit Annapolis, Visit Springfield, Visit Virginia Beach, Crowne Plaza Providence, Visit Mobile, Visit Tucson, Visit Huntsville, Harrah’s Laughlin, Visit Albuquerque, Radisson Hotel Colorado Springs, Dayton OH CVB, Explore Charleston, Visit Jacksonville NC, and Visit Garden Inn Dulles North.

In April 2024, Discover Kalispell hosted me in Montana to showcase the region. Kalispell is a fantastic destination, but keep in mind that rates tend to rise during the most popular times, when the weather is ideal for outdoor adventures.

PLANNING REUNIONS

Planning our reunions takes time, ideally a year or so, and there are several things to be considered. Should it be held on the West Coast, East Coast, or in the Midwest? What time of year and what weather can we expect at the selected location? How much money will the crew pay for travel, hotel, and food? Will the crew pre-pay to cover deposits required? How many will show?

Up to now, the location has been easy. 2024 was my fourth ship reunion here in San Diego. San Diego has been a natural choice; It's where our ship called home, I know the hotels/venues/events, and it’s been frequently requested. Crew member feedback will always determine reunion location.

REUNION FUNDRAISING

Besides the funds donated through our main FundRazr page, I also work with businesses which have user-friendly fundraising programs. In the past, I have taken advantage of the Panda Express nationwide virtual campaign, which donates 28% of sales, and have found a great local supporter, TapRoom Bar & Grill, which offers 20%. These efforts, combined with our FundRazr page, helped us raise $2,305.40 in 2022 and $2,732.21 in 2024 towards our $5,000.00 goal.

In addition, I actively seek financial donations and in-kind contributions from a lengthy list of businesses. Imagine the impact a corporate sponsor could make by funding our entire reunion, providing food, or offering a giveaway for each attendee!

WHAT I DO.

No one wants reunion costs to be a burden! I am committed to finding ways to make our reunions financially accessible. Let me know your concerns! Have ideas or suggestions? The more feedback I have, the better I can tailor the reunion to fit everyone's needs.

Airfare - 2022 was the first time we had an ‘Official Airline’. I have reached out to Alaska, American, Delta, Southwest, and United. The best airline to work with while offering the best discount for our group has been United. With no usage in 2022 or 2024, I may reconsider offering this in 2026.

Car Rental - Discounts always depend on dates and length of rental. Our best discounts have come from Avis/Budget. Rates are normally available 2-3 days pre/post reunion event.

Hotel - I normally sign an agreement for an initial block of 10-15 rooms but have the ability to increase if necessary. I research the top hotel chains and any unique properties found locally. I look at room price, local room taxes, parking fees, cancelation policies, logistics, amenities, and of course comfort. Room rates are normally available 2-3 days pre/post reunion event.

Event Transportation - Transportation will be provided to/from reunion events for those staying at the official hotel; the cost will depend on the number of people needing transportation. The quotes I receive for transportation are always high, so personal vehicles are used whenever possible. In 2022 and 2024, our fundraising allowed us to provide a 15-passenger van as a shuttle.

Event Prices - For the main reunion event, I consider the venue and its amenities, deposit needed, food minimum, and especially the number of attendees required to meet that minimum. I always try and select group events that are fun and/or interesting while also keeping the prices affordable.

Payment - I offer the following options: Venmo, checks, or I will add my processing fee of .039% to a card transaction. For the 2026 reunion, I may require a non-refundable deposit of $10.00(?) to secure a spot and have a payment deadline of 30-60 days prior. Additionally, an early payment discount may be offered.

HOW CAN YOU GET INVOLVED?

Spread the word: The more the merrier, right? When 2026 dates are announced, help me get the word out to fellow veterans! Share the information with your network, on social media, or by reaching out to those who might not be online. A strong turnout makes the reunion even better.

Donate and Volunteer: Every contribution makes a difference! You can donate online year-round or help support other fundraisers when scheduled. Can you lend a hand with our fundraising efforts? Maybe you have connections with potential supporters. Every dollar raised brings us closer to an unforgettable reunion! Donate, volunteer, and most importantly, mark your calendar and plan to attend when 2026 dates are announced! It is important for every crew member, whether attendance is planned or not, to help promote our reunions and fundraising efforts. Not only are you helping those who will be attending, but you will be keeping the USS Anchorage (LSD 36) story alive.

PREVIOUS REUNIONS

I want to express my gratitude to our dedicated reunion regulars; you know who you are, and those who attended for the first time in 2024. Let's make 2026 a record attendance year!

2026 - Will your name be on the attendee list? Will you be in any of the pictures?
2024 - Flyer ~ Attendees ~ Pictures ~ Reunions Magazine Article ~ Reunions Magazine - Correction
2022 - Flyer ~ Attendees ~ Pictures ~ Reunions Magazine Article
2020 - Flyer ***POSTPONED
2013 - Attendees ~ Pictures

“Can’t really make the letters big enough: BRAVO ZULU to properly reflect the herculean efforts you put forth to make 2024 a fun and memorable reunion.” LTJG Chuck Johnson (7/72-5/75)

"Thoroughly enjoyed my first LSD-36 reunion in 2022. The Bay Club was an excellent choice for a host hotel for the reunion. Accommodations and location were perfect for such an event. Even ran into the reunion coordinator the night before the first official event and shared a couple at the hotel bar! The 'Welcome' social hour, 'Main Event' dinner and 'Group Breakfast' were great times to rekindle old relationships. A highlight for me was the tour of the same-named US Navy replacement ship. All-in-all, a great time!" Plank Owner LTJG George Mellen (8/68-6/71)

“My wife and I had a great time at the USS Anchorage 2022 reunion. Seeing shipmates that I have not seen in almost 50 years was definitely worth the trip. The venue and activities were excellently planned- what fun! I hope more of my friends will attend the 2024 reunion - they won’t regret it.” QM3 Alan Bescan (5/73-12/76)

In October 2022, my wife and I, along with our children and grandchild, attended a USS Anchorage (LSD-36) reunion in San Diego, California. This reunion was organized and presented by former crewmember Mike McGrath. This was the third Anchorage reunion I had attended since my retirement from the US Navy in 1987. Mike ensured this was a memorable reunion with a variety of activities including a harbor cruise, a crew breakfast, and a ships tour of the new USS Anchorage. (LPD-23). The reunion brought back many positive memories of my tour onboard not only for me, but for my son who was only 13 years old when he participated in a “Tiger Cruise” on Anchorage after a Westpac deployment. I would like to thank Mike for his dedication to Anchorage reunions and I look forward to future reunions. MA Dave Rios (1/85-8/87)